On Death and Dying

We have so many pictures of death and dying. What has transpired from these interviews is the way we can reduce those we deeply love to the physical form they have held in our lives and then miss out on the blessing of what is available after they pass.
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So should we be questioning our use of the words we use around death and dying? For example, have we really 'lost' a loved one like we might lose a ring or a possession, or can we not 'lose' what was never ours to own in the first place?

When I was looking at her (body after she had passed), I could still feel her, I could still feel everything I had held her in and she had held me in - I hadn't lost a thing - Jasmine Prentice

The best way I can love him is to fully accept that that was his complete life and yet at the same time know there is no end to that relationship - Deborah Savran

Are we always feeling that our relationships with everybody in every moment has a sense of deep appreciation, an opportunity to see their essence, who they innately are, and then, do we always feel that everything expressed has been completed? Grief is our unspoken expressions. ​Anita Stansfield

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Further Resources

Links to 
Jasmine Prentice's blogs
Kate Chorley's Living with Quality...Oh and Cancer
Deborah Savran's Wellbeing website
DeborahSavran's music - 
Anita's Celebrant business